Sunday, December 31, 2023

Holidays 2023

Somehow this holiday season just FLEW by! It feels like we were just running full speed right up to Christmas Break (which began just a couple days before Christmas)! On top of that, we had a super mild December, so it didn't even feel like Christmastime. Regardless, we tried our best to make memories and keep traditions alive!

Decorating is always a fun and festive tradition. Joel learned how to string the tree...yes, we still own our original tree, which is not pre-lit. Unfortunately, we had a few hiccups with the lighting of the tree and learned that old school lights won't work when you connect almost 1000 of them!

The kids all made some special memories this season. Leah had fun ice skating with her girl scout troop. The boys also enjoyed their solo adventures with TiTi to see the Blackhawks play.



We enjoyed the multiple band concerts!



We took an adventure on a nice day into the city to visit the Christkindl Market. It was SUPER crowded and a bit too much for us, so we ventured over to Macy's to see the decorations and scored a reservation to the Walnut Room. We hadn't been there in quite a few years, so that was such a special treat!


We are so glad that we got to squeeze in a Hanukkah celebration. We ate LOTS of latkes :)

The Lamont cookie day was the perfect way to kick off the Christmas weekend!



We enjoyed a fun Christmas Eve....games in the morning, church in the afternoon, dinner out and then driving around to see lights. Christmas Day was super relaxing and ended with a yummy dinner at TiTi's.

We finished our celebrations on the day after Christmas with the Blooms. We loved getting to see Madelyn and Lydia. Unfortunately, Mark was sick and stayed upstairs.

Though we loved all of the jam-packed fun, it was definitely nice to be able to look forward to a slow-paced two weeks off after Christmas. Unfortunately, those two weeks began with sickness in our house....Shingles for mom, pink eye for Caleb, and a bad cold for Tyler. Recovering has been tough, but we are thankful that nobody has to be at work or school!

Saturday, December 30, 2023

Dear Leah,


Another year has flown by in the blink of an eye. Year one of the teenage years with you was a breeze and we hope this trend continues! It's not that you are 100% perfect, but you certainly make our lives so very easy with your easygoing personality. You have a few moments of teenage sass and definitely spend more time on your phone than we'd like, but for the most part, you are just as sweet as you've always been.

You still have a heart that is so big and you would do anything for those you love. Your family and friends are your greatest treasure. You are still the first one to give up something or go without if it means making someone else happy. You are the thoughtful one who leaves notes or words of encouragement to brighten someone's day. You make THE best birthday cards and spend hours making them JUST right. You deeply feel for others and wear your heart on your sleeve. You've navigated some tricky junior high girl relationships with such maturity and wisdom. You don't allow yourself to get wrapped up in the typical drama that comes with being a young teenage girl. We are so proud of how you rise above and choose what's right over what is easy. You are the kid who tries hard to include those who are left out and you see value in every single person.

Your friends are so lucky to have you. When someone is hurting or in need, you are there for them. You're almost always the first one to initiate a text conversation or phone call. You love to plan get togethers and would spend every waking moment with friends. Eighth grade has been especially fun for you as you've found a great core group of girlfriends. They are girls who are just as down-to-earth and easygoing as you. You've learned so much about how to find genuine friends who bring out the best in you.

Family is also an essential part of who you are. You are so good at staying connected with family near and far. We are so shocked when we hear that you make random phone calls or send spontaneous texts to your grandparents, great aunts, or other family members. Your siblings are also so lucky to have you. You've continued to push through your strong dislike of watching sports to be your brothers' biggest fan....no matter what the sport. At home, you do such a great job of balancing out their strong personalities. When Nyla is home, you share such sweet moments with her and we can tell that the bond you two have is such a sweet one.

Parenting you is really quite easy....for now! You are an amazing student and we NEVER have to doubt that you aren't giving 110% to school. You are incredibly organized (even though your bedroom sometimes would suggest otherwise). You stay on top of all that you have going on and often beat us to entering things into the family calendar. You don't ask for much besides the permission to have a few friends over now and then or to tag along on a shopping trip....it's an added bonus if that shopping trip includes a trip to your favorite - Starbucks!

This past year, we've also watched you grow more into your passions and interests. You definitely love music and dancing. Dance classes continue to be a highlight of your week. You're always making up dances and asking for more time on TikTok to learn a new dance. You absolutely loved being part of your school musical last year and totally shined on the stage at VBS with your acting role. We were also so impressed with your determination this fall to grow as a runner. You pushed through some pain and even landed in PT, but you didn't let that stop you from reaching your running goals! You have also grown more in your nurturing personality and have created such a deep bond with our little neighbor Lucy. She adores you and we know that you love getting to love on her. We are certain that Lucy's mom, Kristen, totally appreciates your willingness to always tag along on adventures with Lucy!

We are truly so lucky to call you our daughter. We continue to be blown away by the amazing person you are growing up to be. You have a heart so big and genuine that we know you will make a huge impact with whatever you do. On top of that, you have such a strong and sincere faith in God that we know you will be grounded in His love wherever you go. We cannot wait to continue to guide you along the journey of your teenage years and are excited to see what the upcoming high school years will hold. You are such an amazing girl and God was so generous when He gave us the privilege to be your patents.

Love,
Dad and Mom

Monday, October 16, 2023

Back to School and BUSY

Back to school means back to busy in the Sturm home! Thankfully, it does feel a little less hectic than in previous years. Having the kids participate in sports/activities that are part of the school means that most things happen in the after-school hours instead of the evening, so we at least get to have family dinners most nights!

Right as summer began to wind down, the boys got to take an extra special trip (on an EXTRA hot day) to watch a the BMW Championship at Olympia Fields Country Club. Despite the heat, they had a great time! I'd say it sparked more of an interest in golf, which definitely will make Grandpa happy!

School starting means more nights with homework and earlier bedtimes, so trips for ice cream don't happen nearly as often as they do during the summer. However, we make sure to get in a Ranch Frostie trip every once in awhile!

Leah is signed up for another year of Girl Scouts. It seems like most of their monthly meetings are just outings to various places, which is fun for her! This past time, they met at a wildflower farm just south of New Lenox. She picked a lovely bouquet and had fun with her gal pals!


It's hard to believe, but after so many years of hosting Slammers players, TiTi has declared that this season was her last. We've had so many great memories of nights spent at the ballpark and we will definitely miss interacting with the (mostly) wonderful guys that she has hosted.

Band has been up and running since early August when Leah and Joel had camp each morning. The junior high band was preparing to march in the Fall Fest parade and they did a great job. Joel was thrilled to get to hold the sign. Next year it'll be his turn to march and play! The junior high band also got to play at the high school game one evening. If it hadn't been so cold and rainy, we might have all enjoyed it a bit more, but Leah seemed to have fun despite the weather!


We took a quick day-trip down to Champaign to celebrate Nyla's 21st birthday. We had a great time going to the apple orchard and out to eat. It was definitely a quick trip and we wish we could've spent more time down there, but we will take what we can get!


Caleb had an awesome homecoming week. It started with Homecoming Olympics on Monday night where he and a team dressed as characters from Mario. The rest of the week was spent enjoying fun theme days and a football win on Friday night. He ended the week having a great time at the dance. He went with a group of friends...some of them came back to hang at our house afterwards and they were all SILENT and EXHAUSTED! I guess that means they had a good time!


Our annual chili cookoff was great this year. We had perfect weather and tons of yummy chili and desserts. The chili winner was cousin Rob and the dessert trophy went to Mitch Evans, who tackled the task of making his mom's famous chocolate chip cookies!


Youth group is back to normal after a summer of mostly fun/socializing. The kids are enjoying their small groups and Caleb seems to really enjoy being able to help with all of the tech jobs.

4H has begun and the Sturm kids are stepping up as leaders. Caleb handed over the President's gavel. He did a great job last year, but high school is just a bit too busy for him to commit to such a big leadership role. Leah will be taking on the role of Vice President this year and is also joining the county federation. She's looking forward to going away on an overnight trip in November with three other girls to a 4H Leadership Conference. I know she'll have a blast. Joel also stepped up as a leader this year. He is in charge of greeting and welcoming new members. He's done a great job already as he convinced two of his good friends, Laney and Ellie, to join!



We definitely don't have as many sports to juggle this Fall as we've had in the past, so that's a nice change! Leah is taking dance classes again and is loving the new instructor (who also happens to be one of my good friends). 

Joel had an amazing cross country season. He continued to improve each week and set a PR at each race. Joel also became well known for his very unique style out on the course. You could count on him to ALWAYS have on his lucky, yellow zebra socks and his sweatband. If there was even a tiny bit of sun, he'd also sport his yellow shades. It was definitely a sight to see! His ultimate goal was to make the sectionals/state roster and he did! He was an alternate, so he didn't have to run, but he loved getting to experience all of the fun that goes along with participating in sectionals and state (pasta parties, school parades, and fun practices). I'd like to think that some of his success came from his awesome cheering section (AKA his sister....who lovingly came to just about every single meet - even the ones that were hours away)! She was such a great encourager and even took the time to make a few signs to show some love before he headed to state. 

Caleb has been enjoying football. He began the season with a game one injury to his Achilles tendon, but a few weeks in a boot and a good ankle brace seem to be all that he needed to get back to business. He did miss out on getting to play in the game at the ISU stadium, but he handled that disappointment well. Its been fun watching him improve and gain confidence. He's come a long way in just two seasons of playing tackle football! Just as with cross country for Joel, Caleb should be thankful for his siblings, who come to just about every game. We've lucked out and had some great weather most of the time, but there have been a few games that were a bit cold and rainy. Leah and Joel are troopers, though, and they don't complain too much!











Friday, August 25, 2023

6th Grade

Sadly, Joel's 6th grade year means it's our last year at Bentley. We have loved everything about this school since Caleb started there many years ago as a 4th grader. The teachers and staff are phenomenal and we have loved watching how much our kids grow and change during their three years there. With Joel being the last one, you'd think he would only be known as the brother of Caleb and Leah, but he has certainly made a name for himself. Last year was the first year that he had a teacher that both of his siblings had and she assured us that Joel is 100% unique and set apart from his siblings. He marches to the beat of his own drum and has a personality that is so easy to love. Joel takes school pretty seriously and his competitive side is definitely what drives him to do well. He always wants to be the best of the best...no matter what. While we love this about him, we know it's not always the easiest trait to deal with. Regardless, we know he is going to do a great job leaving a legacy at Bentley. He will be an awesome leader and we can count on him to do what he needs to do without much guidance from home!

 What is your name? Joel Sturm

How old are you? 12....you're not 12....dang-it, 11

What do you want to be when you grow up? electrical engineer or a person who takes care of dogs

What is your favorite food? smoked ribs or smoked chicken

What is your favorite drink? pink lemonade

What makes you happy? Chief

What makes you sad? Mom when she yells at me or Dad when he makes me do so many things at once

What is your favorite thing to do at home? snuggle with the dog

Who is your best friend? Quinton or Finn

Where is your favorite place to go? the lake

What is your favorite thing to do with Mommy? bake cookies

What is your favorite thing to do with Daddy? fish

What is the best part about Caleb (brother)? He lets me stay up late and doesn't snitch.

What is the best part about Leah (sister)? 
She plays with me.

What is your favorite book? The Losers Club

What is your favorite movie? Ant Man

Where is your favorite place to eat? Popeyes

What is your favorite thing to wear? UnderAmour shirts

Sophomore Year

Freshman year couldn't have ended soon enough for Caleb and we are so excited for a fresh start this year. Our school loving kid definitely changed his tune last year and he/we would like to forget a lot of what he experienced as a freshman. Looking back, we know that Caleb always struggles when he transitions to a new school. That doesn't seem too surprising given the fact that he is our most routine/structure-loving kid. Caleb thrives when he knows what to expect and has more confidence in his ability to succeed. High school certainly comes with a lot of challenges. Balancing all of the demands of school, sports, and a social life is not easy. We are thrilled that Caleb wants to do so much, but are also seeing how hard it can be to juggle. Hopefully a year of growth and maturity was just what he needed to have a more positive and successful year! 


What is your name? Caleb Sperm

How old are you? old enough

What do you want to be when you grow up? veterinarian

What is your favorite food? nachos, fettucine alfredo, or fried chicken sandwiches

What is your favorite drink? Pepsi

What makes you happy? winning

What makes you sad? losing

What is your favorite thing to do at home? play basketball

Who is your best friend? Micah

Where is your favorite place to go? anywhere besides home and school

What is your favorite thing to do with Mommy? listen to her yell at me and ground me

What is your favorite thing to do with Daddy? watch him go along with mom

What is the best part about Leah (sister)? nothing

What is the best part about Joel (brother)? He's always down to hang out with me. He's my homie.

What is your favorite book? Harry Potter

What is your favorite movie? Rush Hour

Where is your favorite place to eat? Popeyes

What is your favorite thing to wear? anything that doesn't make me look fat

8th Grade

It just doesn't seem possible that Leah is entering her final year of grade/middle school. It seriously feels like she was just being dropped off at preschool (kicking and screaming and crying). Thankfully, her opinions on school have changed quite a bit and she is almost always happy and eager to go. She is an incredibly hard worker and, after years of pushing herself and working her tail off, she's in all of the accelerated classes. We know she is going to do great. She has the most amazing study habits and organizational skills....which is totally shocking since she was (and sometimes still is) our most free-spirited, "tornado" of a child! It seems as though that "tornado" personality works to her benefit as a student because she has endless amounts of energy and enthusiasm when it comes to school. We cannot wait to see her crush it in 8th grade this year and are going to soak in every moment before she makes the big jump to high school!

What is your name? Leah

How old are you? 13

What do you want to be when you grow up? teacher or ministry

What is your favorite food? chicken nuggets

What is your favorite drink? sparkling ICE drinks

What makes you happy? when I have no homework

What makes you sad? when someone else is hurting

What is your favorite thing to do at home? play outside

Who is your best friend? I have a lot

Where is your favorite place to go? the beach

What is your favorite thing to do with Mommy? go to the store

What is your favorite thing to do with Daddy? play sports

What is the best part about Caleb (brother)? When he doesn't yell at you guys.

What is the best part about Joel (brother)? 
When he plays with me.

What is your favorite book? Words on Fire

What is your favorite movie? I don't have one.

Where is your favorite place to eat? Pops

What is your favorite thing to wear? my new pink shirt

Wednesday, August 9, 2023

Lake 2023

This year we only got two weeks at the lake instead of the three weeks we've had in the past few years. Whether it's two weeks or three, there never seems to be enough time down there. We all love our summer days/nights at the lake and it seems to be even more enjoyable now that the kids are older. We made tons of memories this summer and it would take a novel to tell it all, so I'll stick with some short phrases and words in list form:

*Fourth of July - neighborhood golf cart parade and fireworks with the best view
*Gilbert Family joined us in July
*Micah joined us in August (along with Grandpa and Grandma)
*LOTS of games...day and night (Tripoley, Casino, Mexican Train Dominoes, Triominoes, and several new ones - Hearts, Roulette, and King's Corner)
*Boat rides
*Skiing (Joel has mastered slalom skiing), tubing, and kneeboarding
*Waver runner rides
*Kayaking and Paddleboarding
*The Beacon Point Gang (Sturms, Gilberts, and grandkids of Uncle Dave and Aunt Nancy's neighbor)
*Ice cream at Scooters
*Learning to play pickleball
*Dinner at Jolly Roger
*Early morning walks and jogs
*The resurrection of the old train set
*A new (and delicious) ice cream place in Eldon - The Ice Cream Factory
*Shopping
*Go Karts
*Lots of fishing (including a new challenge called "net fishing" in the dock well)
*Mini Golf
*Leah finally learned to dive off the dock (she can do it in a pool, but the dock always scared her)

All in all, lots and lots and lots of fun was had! We love our lake time :)